Some people wait all their lives for the big call. Sometimes it comes, sometimes it doesn’t. For me, the real issue isn’t so much what you do when you get the call, it’s what you do while you’re waiting for it. You can’t get that time back.
I’ve seen talented kids move from school to school looking for a better team to play on to enhance their athletic resume. Only problem is that better teams have better players and this talented, mobile kid is on the best team, warming the bench. The call never comes. Could have been a star on a lesser team.
Last spring I met someone who years ago was hailed as a very talented and promising poet. Big time in the poetry world. Acclaim caused an internal meltdown as she waited in bed for the next great poem to flow from her fingers. The call never came.
How many people have you ever seen who work hard and boast of all the trappings of success. The houses, cars, club memberships, fame, and fortune. Waiting for a call offering the next accolade. Maybe it comes. And all the while the family waits on hold. A missed call.
Yesterday I had my phone silenced because I was at work in the hospital. I forgot to turn it back on when I went home. While I wasn’t paying attention I missed a call. This one from the antique shop. I wait anxiously for these calls every day. Someone wants to buy something big. But doesn’t like the price. Let’s haggle. What a thrill!
I missed the call but called right back. They wanted some stained glass windows, but wanted a discount. Could I do that? I was excited because I’d like to move these big ticket items. I’d do what they asked. But, they had just left. Couldn’t wait. On their way home to another state. Didn’t want to ship them later.
Missed call. Missed sale. Damn! That sale would have put me on easy street for this month. Damn!
What was my real reaction? There will be another buyer. A buyer who will be happy to pay the full price. Or a price that didn’t require a call to me.
Missed call. Missed sale. Yeah, but tomorrow is another day. Another sale. Another call. If it’s that important they’ll call back! In the mean time, keep on rockin!
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