A fine example. If you’ve ever wondered about the magnitude of sifting through the memorabilia of thirty-eight years of home ownership, consider this. A basement. Nearly 1000 square feet jam packed with this, that and the other thing. And there, on a shelf under the stairs, next to a collection of dusty old wine bottles waiting for consumption, were three coffee cans full of old wine bottle corks! He got rid of the bottles, but saved the corks.
My mother and father are moving. After thirty-eight years in this old house, they are downsizing. They have to go through the 2600 square feet of the house, plus the basement, attic and barn. And yes, each of these areas is packed with things like wine corks! I know my dad had a plan for the corks. He told me. He just never got around to it. Just like every nut, bolt, nail or screw that ever passed through his hand. All stuffed in coffee cans.
Don’t get me wrong. They have a lot of really cool stuff. I mean really cool. And some of it is indeed stuffed in coffee cans. But there is some other stuff too. Stuff they will need to part with. They can’t even take all the good stuff with them let alone the things like wine corks. I know it must be hard.
Judging by the speed at which they are sorting through all of this, they should be finished by about…NEVER! They have been contemplating this move for five years. It’s been a reality for the past several months. And, whoa! Did I mention it’s gonna happen in January?! They don’t have to get it all done in January though. There is a window of opportunity. But they might want to pick up the pace a little.
Watching them in their daily routine, breakfast, coffee, the newspaper etc., I realize that they are in no hurry. And I wonder, do they really want to move? No, I think not. They are not young anymore and it’s hard work. Physically and mentally. They have been there a long time. Because they love it there. But there are compelling reasons to move. At this point in their lives. They know that. And as the time finally arrives, I’m sure it will happen. But first, they will re-examine the wine corks. And so many other memories.
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